1- The Good Mother Fails. It keeps women apart with distrust and its competitive nature. In their immaturity and isolation they tend to teach their children that it is more important to keep their feet dry than it is to know and understand their world.
But that's not how I feel. Often we attend to trifles, misunderstandings, and offenses when we could be putting our attention on more important matters. The Good Mother Fails. As we build strong relationships with our children and help them grow into healthy adults, we get to experience not only our own life filled with happiness, pain, and all that life is – but also our children's' happiness and pain – that is living life, and living it more abundantly. There is much joy and meaning to be found when you let go of expectation of constant happiness.
We found a small church we love. A few years ago I read her book and threw out ten garbage bags of stuff. The case records of professional people who work with "problem" children are full of conclusive evidence that children often lie, steal, destroy property, commit sex crimes, fail in school and at work, or are crippled with emotional and mental illnesses in direct response to mothers who have somehow failed in the kind of feeling they bring to their children. Lots of people can be happy at the same time. No one appreciates Novocaine more than I do. "Being human always points, and is directed, to something or someone, other than oneself — be it a meaning to fulfill or another human being to encounter. Failure is the mother. Though their life was far from ideal, it might even be true that little children brought up by Negro mammies in the South, for instance, were happier, better cared for, and more sensibly loved than the average child now under its educated mother's constant supervision in a modern apartment. EVERY modern mother feels — in some degree — a conflict between the kind of life she is trained in America to want and expect, and the kind of life she must in fact lead as a mother.
Selfishness and a focus on personal-satisfaction can certainly be a motivation to choose a childless life. Modern feminism is not helping, proposing models that undermine the traditionally feminine and women who make life choices on that spectrum. I need not shut those avenues down because of the demands of motherhood. Failure is the mother to success. When people forgo parenthood because they don't think having children would "spark joy, " they are using happiness as the judge, and who made "happiness" the best judge of life? The intelligent, urban-civilized woman has serious shortcomings as a mother. It felt, often, like I was suffocating, like I was dying a bit today, and a bit the next, and that every day was going to be like that. I want children, I want goats, I want acreage.
Several women have written beautiful pieces for the site, and I have gained precious friends. As my children grow, I see myself less as their gardener and more as a fellow tree, growing beside them and experiencing the peace and storms of life together. Have we really matured beyond our six-year-old self's demands? Children were a fact of life- the continuation of life. Dostoevsky said, "Through children the soul is healed…". We take extra care as it puts down roots. If the purpose of an adult human being is to rear a child or two so that those children can in turn rear children, ad infinitum, then life is unquestionably the absurd treadmill it sometimes seems and there is nothing to do but relax. Success is the mother of failure. As I researched this topic, I found studies showing differing correlation, but the data is too complex to show causation. As we look honestly at our envy and our resentments, we can admit that some of our perceptions may be faulty: Perhaps those in the spotlight of our envy do not have the life we think, perhaps the world is not out to get us, and perhaps we are not justified in our bitterness. And let's let go of the rest. This is where people feel compelled to say, 'I wouldn't change it for the world! ' So if you sacrifice their courage and competence on the altar of safety then you disarm them completely and all they can do is pray to be protected. But in what feels like 10 years the public opinion seems to have turned around. We reorganized our priorities.
As we become aware of the benefit of inattention, of letting go of the ultimately unimportant, we may see an increase in our mental wellness and a strengthening of our relationships. After all, if we're straining to make our child's life a work of art, it would be folly to include suffering in the landscape. I already had confidence from my earlier life experiences. In the clip below Jordan Peterson explains how positive emotions must be balanced with necessary negative emotions. Those people with whom we share the most, from whom we stand to learn most, are those we most resent. I don't think it was good to send 15-year-olds off to war and I doubt most Dark Age mothers were model parents. That is life-destabilizing. Dissatisfaction, then, leads to guilt, and guilt to despair as they find themselves, consciously or unconsciously, incapable of giving their little children the one thing little children need most — simple, relaxed, wholehearted love. 🤰Happy Mother's Day. "If you're constantly in a state of satisfaction and happiness then nothing is going to affect you deeply enough so that you will become deep, and life without depth is, by definition, shallow and meaningless. " Why not pave a new normal? I felt compelled to reply. Constantly observing my unhappiness only added to it. We lost my nephew just before he was born, and my sister in law was very ill. Years ago, I remember having to shut down Facebook anytime someone would post photos of their international adventures.
I want you to picture yourself as a new mother in the Middle Ages. You want them to move forward into the world as a bright beacon on the hill. "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. " Pride is feeling superior for having more than others, and envy is disdain for those who have more than you. Many children in the village had never seen a white person; very few spoke English; there was no running water or electricity. The results surprised the researchers, "When the study began, nobody cared about empathy or attachment. Is it inevitable that the "good" mother in our society will smother her child with love, security, and peace at home, and then, painfully and belatedly, turn him out into a world which, to the complete surprise of both mother and child, commands him to kill and be killed?
You may not picture yourselves in a traditional role, ever—it would be too constrained, too much of a sacrifice, too much boredom and compromise. As we walked through her thoughts and reactions, I realized it was the all too common pattern that starts with covetousness and ends in irrational bitterness. Both my parents worked full time. However is sounds contractionary but especially for men, in my case the fact that my mother was always concerned about me caused massive social anxiety. Do we want to be gardeners, tending a growing tree for the greater good of mankind? Anyone who has watched themselves lose their temper with a tiny person who can't possibly defend themselves can understand the need to integrate the shadow, and learn to manage their own inner monster. This young man's fatherhood is forcing him to find a new path to joy, a less selfish path, and a path sure to include distress. Do you think you would fret about the strict schoolmaster? You inhabit a different mental space than other people, and your encounters with the social world are colored by that transgression as well—you are handled differently, even by those who love you. This is particularly true in raising children – if we held onto every misdeed perpetrated by our children, there would be few moments left for joy. There is a place for selfishness, and I hope there is a big place for happiness – but orienting our lives to maximize the realization of our selfish desires is a recipe for destruction.
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