This topic has 132 replies, 17 voices, and was last updated 2 months, 2 weeks ago by Anonymous. That is where the upbringing comes in; if they are not brought up in a certain way, they will definitely disappoint you in the long run. It is worth pushing pause on your anger and emotions and considering whether your parents may be right. Dating and indian parents. My mom wanted me to go into medicine as well, but I rebelled and now work as a computer engineer with great work-life balance in another state.
I do not want to meet any of these guys, considering I feel like I have found the one. What has happened with you is really unfortunate and I am totally with you. Do you think that your parents will be mad because you're dating? I am not able to forget all the times we had, I feel we are meant to be! Earlier in our relationship, he would say things such as his parents might not even approve, or stuff along those lines. Either way, you need to respect the fact that you still need to have a relationship with them, meaning you can't just write them off as evil because they told you no. My people were happy for me. This is getting long, so my thoughts based on this review, will follow in the very next post. How do I bring up to my Indian parents that I have an Indian boyfriend (nothing wrong with him, just not sure how to bring up conversation. That was the day my dreams, future, simply everything shattered. It's quite strange, right? Should I try to convince him more to talk to his parents or should I call his mother? I have made a lot of the same mistakes, but now at least I can point them out and teach others not to go down bad paths before it gets worse.
They may spot red flags or issues of concern that you haven't experienced yet. They said the kid may think himself to be progressive and modern and liberal by choice but he or she will obviously fall into old habits once they feel insecure. This step can be especially beneficial if you are a teen, and he is your first boyfriend. I cannot imagine loving or marrying someone else, he was so much perfect, so loving. Dear Niki: I am sorry you are experiencing such pain and devastation. Having reviewed your account best I can, it reads to me that the results of his parents meeting you and your parents/ family (uncle was involved somehow) was predetermined before any meeting took place. Listen to what they have to say and why they oppose you dating. This article has been viewed 819, 925 times. Indian boyfriend won't tell parents.fr. They wanted me to just sit at home and have fun. I know he would say the same. Thus, he said we'll wait for the time we are ready to get married and then he'll tell them and explain them. Try to reach a compromise so that you're both on the same page about when you can start dating. 8Be willing to negotiate.
I comprehend that you have been in a relationship with your partner for the past two years and you both love each other. They feel betrayed by this but they don't understand that this is the position they are putting me in. Frankly, he was something else on call, I understand he was stressed out, but he never talked with me like this. Instead, wait until the middle or end of the conversation to talk about it. So when the time comes they are more susceptible to approve your relationship. You have to come out of this. Take care, VJJanuary 13, 2017 at 11:44 pm #125223. My boyfriend is scared to tell his parents about our relationship - Times of India. Look at how much he realized on his own in time apart from you. But here is the thing. Especially when it comes to your life's choices, things that parents say haunt us and usually come true. You were willing to adjust but he wasn't. To let you know, I am from India too and I can understand your situation.
Weigh the pros and cons of all sides to reach a conclusion about what to do. Marriage can give a lot of stress to anyone. Otherwise, you can stand by and see if their heart changes because yours is set. And if you want to speak to his family members, then he should be aware that you are going to do so. Everything was going good, until we decided to tell at our respective places regarding marriage. There are people doing MBA at 27, those two year program. HELP! My parents won't let me marry the guy I love | Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships. How would the above words sound when you say to her? He has grown all cold for this, he has also asked his and our mutual friends to not talk about this matter so on & so forth, and to not tell him what I share with them. Then he broke up with me saying his parents would never approve & he didn't want to hurt them.
And that is not bad! Please help…January 12, 2017 at 4:11 am #125096. You can try and convince your grandparents or relatives who are elder to your parents, and who you are comfortable talking. He caved under pressure and blocked you out. You would have been stuck with a weak man and had your education wasted had this worked out.
Meanwhile, his parents sent me and him in his room so that they can talk with my parents alone. 1, 514 posts, read 2, 035, 642.
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